NUGGETS FROM PASTOR (MRS) FUNKE-FELIX ADEJUMO’S TEACHING: LESSONS FROM RUTH.

One day, I went to a Conference like this and someone said something several years ago – I think about twenty seven (27) Years.

So, I got back home sat by the table and I was sweating.

And my little son came and said: “Mummy who are we expecting?”

I said: “It is your dad”.

And he said: ” Is he that important?”

Even the children are watching because they are “Innocent learners”.

How do you Set your husband’s table?

The same Plate your husband has been using to eat since Canada was founded, it is still the same Plate and set of Cutleries.

Excuse me; Go out and change and buy New Set – I change it regularly.

My husband Set is different not because I’m a Pastor’s wife.

My husband Set is different – I honour him.

He is a King in his Kingdom – He faces his Ministry out there and whenever he comes home, he is in his Empire with expectations.

When last did you receive your husband or welcome him with a Hug in your hands?

Some of you your children has taken the Place of your husband and you are making sure that the children comes in-between you.

Sometimes, you will tell your husband that don’t finish that meal; It is for my children – And your husband is wondering every time, every time; my children, my children.

In twenty five (25) Years time, those children would have gone. If they don’t go you will Pray and say that God should take them away and let them go and get married.

And sometimes you will be lonely even though you are two (2) because you didn’t build that relationship over the years.

So, it is important for you to Please feed the man correctly – Stop giving him the same Meal everyday.

Serve him – Let him know that you have his time.

It is important for you to do this.

After the man had eaten and drank; show him love and care.

I’m speaking to you married women giving your husband the same carbohydrates everyday – Think!

Sometimes, you need to stop watching some of these Channels and go to learn something about how to make food and all that – Serve him correctly.

Let your husband feel Special – Make him a King in your home.

Even if you are not married you can learn for the future.

There is no man you treat like a King that will not treat you back like a Queen.

… Do your own Part and trust God.

You must constantly make your husband happy; give him Joy and stop noticing every of his mistakes.

Stop nagging. Every time you quarrel.

When your marriage is one (1) Year, you quarreled for one (1) Week. Now that your marriage is ten (10) Years, when will you grow up?

Twenty five (25) Years; you still keep Christian Malice.

You know Christian malice?

How are you? – Blessed.

How is your day? – Fine.

… They talk of course.

If the Rapture comes, better change now.

Let him be happy. Make him happy.

When last did you tickle your husband? When last did you put a little fish in your mouth and then tip toed and you put it in his mouth from the back? – When last did you do that?

You know sometimes I just moved towards my husband and just tickle him. And I will say you are not even a Virgin?

… Just to make him laugh and make him happy.

When last did you do that?

When last did you pillow your head on your husband’s Chest while he is watching football?

You stay in the kitchen for two (2) Hours, what are you cooking? – He doesn’t even come around.

That is why as a woman you must know a little bit about everything.

It is not that your husband and your children are discussing and you keep saying: “I see, I see”.

What did you see?

You can’t even contribute.

You don’t even know the name of any Football Club – When they say Barcelona and you say is it the wife of Obama.

Woman, no man wants an “Old bride” around him – You must keep improving yourself even if you are a “Great Grandmother”, you are somebody’s else wife and it is your responsibilities to make that man happy.

Make him laugh – Stop dwelling on all his mistakes.

Sometimes, my husband put me on his back and all that and sometimes I put him on my back too.

I just want to bring out the little boy from inside out – Come out, come and laugh.

I was watching you and your body language. If you are truly happy, you can’t hide it.

You see some Couples they are always looking Straight – What is wrong with you? Why did you get married?

Marry your friend. It is not every time you have sex.

I have been married thirty one (31) Years now; If your life is based on sex, you have lost it.

So, there must be other things that keep the marriage going – As the man age, the generator also age.

When we were newly married, we could have sex four (4) times a day – In the kitchen, in the bathroom anywhere anyhow.

That is why I always tell newly married couple that don’t let anyone interfere because you need to bond.

Sex is like water that mixes the cement in the building – So, you must have it anywhere and it doesn’t have to be initiated by the man.

It is a sign of immaturity to say until my husband makes the move because I don’t want to appear cheap.

Excuse me! You are living in “Stone Age”.

It is your husband, it is your marriage because some of us are from African background and can’t say I want sex.

Ok; Let me teach you what to say as you are serving maybe the children are there.

Just whisper to his ear and say: “I want a flight to Jerusalem tonight”

… The man will understand!

Or you say to him: Tonight I like you to make deposit without withdrawal”.

… He knows what you are talking about.

Coin your own Language!

Why are you laughing now? – Be spiritual now!

For the man’s heart to be Merry – You determined, you dictate the mood of your marriage as a woman.

ABOUT THE SPEAKER

Funke Felix Adejumo is a Nigerian Pastor, Teacher, Author, Marriage Counselor and Humanitarian.

She is the President of Funke Felix Adejumo Foundation – A Foundation dedicated to making worldwide Impact.

With a great Passion for womanhood and Divine Purpose of ‘Honoring God and Blessing Humanity’, Funke organizes several impactful women Programs.

She is the Convener of Mothers’ Summit, Winning Edge Conference, Women in Leadership Conference, and many more.

Undoubtedly, Funke is one of the women who is so Passionate about the female gender and is gladly fulfilling her Purpose on Earth.

She is happily married to Felix ‘Remi Adejumo. They met in 1982 at Ibadan, and took their Marriage oath in 1984.

Bishop Felix ‘Remi Adejumo is the Founder and Senior Pastor of Agape Christian Ministries Inc.

The union is blessed with four (4) Biological children, grandchildren and adopted children.

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